我们已经习惯了这样。你看那些成功人士,成天都不知道在忙些什么,打不完的电话,见不完的人,我特别讨厌这种生活。我从前就说过:生活从下班开始。其实这句话并不意味着我下班后的生活多么丰富多彩,只是我觉得现在大多数中国人的精力和生活都是围绕着工作,莫名其妙的公私不分,下了班还要去应酬,还要去吃那些不想吃的饭,去见那些不想见的人——这是我特别不喜欢的。昨天,我在从上海回南京的火车上,旁边坐了一个女人,从上火车开始,她就没闲着。一个多小时,她始终在打手机,先就 We are used to it. You see those successful people, all day do not know what to do, can not finish the call, I can not finish, I particularly hate this life. I’ve said before: Life begins from get off work. In fact, this sentence does not mean how rich and varied my life after get off work, but I think now that most Chinese people’s energy and life are around the work, inexplicably public and private, after work but also to socialize, but also To go eat those who do not want to eat, to see those who do not want to see - this is what I especially do not like. Yesterday, I was on the train from Shanghai to Nanjing, sitting next to a woman, from the train, she was idle. More than an hour, she is always on the phone, first