《背影》中,朱自清和他父亲之间的那种诚挚感情,特别是父亲那种至爱,给人留下了难忘的印象。但是,也似乎给人们留下这样的一些疑问: 其一,“其实我那年已二十岁,北京来往过两三次,是没有什么要紧的了。”可是父亲却硬要送我”过长江到浦口,并且送“我”上车,“拣定”座位,然后一再嘱咐“我”以至“我心里暗笑他的迂”。可是,父亲的这种关心爱护还不满足,他还要那样艰难地越过铁路去买桔子,一直到把桔子送到“我”身边,他才现出“很轻松”的样子。作者这简单的叙述中,不说明父亲对儿子的爱太超乎寻常了吗?太过份了吗?这种感情的实质又是什么呢? 其二,作品中的“我”对父亲的爱,开始是很不理解的,处处认为父亲的行为不大漂亮而“暗笑 In “Back”, the sincere feelings between Zhu Ziqing and his father, especially his father’s kindness, left an unforgettable impression. However, it seems to leave people with such questions: First, “In fact, I was 20 years old that year and Beijing had two or three times. There is no need to worry about it.” But my father insisted on sending me “to cross the Yangtze River.” I went to Pukou, and sent “I” to the car, “picked” my seat, and then repeatedly called “I” and even “my heart laughs at his jealousy.” However, his father’s care and love are not yet satisfied, and he has to be as hard as that. After crossing the railroads to buy oranges and sending oranges to “I”, he only appeared “very relaxed.” Isn’t the author’s simple narrative to say that his father’s love for his son is too extraordinary? Is it too excessive? What is the essence of this feeling? Second, the love of my “I” for my father in the works is very difficult to understand at first. I think that my father’s behavior is not beautiful and “smiles”.