资本主义带来了人类渴望已久的自由,但这种自由是以人的自我实现为前提的,而自我实现之路的条件却并不单纯,所以自由的资本主义个人化并不能让每个人都获得自我认同,而是加剧了人们不能以金钱和地位证明自我存在的孤独感、焦虑感,和爱的能力的丧失,这正是自由的困境,也是电影《我的男人》给我们的启示。 Capitalism has brought the long-awaited freedom of mankind, but such freedom is premised on the realization of human beings. However, the conditions of the road to self-realization are not so simple. Therefore, the individualization of free capitalism can not allow everyone Gain self-identity, but exacerbate the loss of loneliness, anxiety, and love abilities that people can not justify by their own money and status, which is the plight of freedom and the enlightenment given to us by the film “My Man” .