曾有一位李姓家长写来一封信。信是这样写的:自从8年前儿子落地后,我生怕孩子染上独生子女惯有的毛病——自私、待人缺乏宽容,因此平时十分注意家教,尤其是教育儿子“打架不是好孩子”,严禁孩子在外“寻衅滋事”。“六一”儿童节那天,我带孩子到公园玩,儿子很快与一个年龄相仿的男孩玩了起来,片刻后,不知何故,两个男孩发生了口角。我看见对方男孩 There was a letter written by a parent named Li. Since my son came to the ground eight years ago, I was afraid that my child would have the usual problems of being an only child - selfishness and lack of tolerance. Therefore, I usually pay great attention to tutoring, and especially to education of children, “fighting is not a good boy.” Do not allow children to “provoke trouble”. On the 61st Children’s Day, I took my children to the park and my son quickly started playing with a boy of his age. After a while, somehow, the two boys had a quarrel. I saw each other boy