编者按:以写人为主的记叙文要想写成功,特别是要把通俗的感情写得感人,需要抓住“要害”来写,即要抓住人物特点、典型事例、细节等。《寡言者自重》一文里,作者主要通过典型事例来写父亲“寡言”的特点,其中在叙述事例时有很好的细节描写,呈现出很强的场面感;《爸爸在灶间》中的多处细节描写使“灶间”的“爸爸”的独特形象立了起来,我们可以细细体会;《纸家 Editor’s Note: To write a person-centered narrative to write success, in particular, to write popular feelings touching, you need to seize the “key” to write, that is, to seize the characters, typical examples, details and so on. In his article “Self-esteem,” the writer mainly writes about the characteristics of his father “widow ” through typical examples. In the narration of the case, there is a very good description of the situation, showing a strong sense of scene. “Father in the kitchen” Many of the details in the “Kitchen” “Daddy ” unique stand up, we can carefully understand; "Paper House