前段时间,有一个朋友向我抱怨她的老公,说她老公每天不是坐在电脑前,就是在电视机边,也不说话,几乎忘记她的存在。她总觉得老公有事瞒着她,问他发生什么事了,他要么说没事,要么就发火。她很苦恼,对他的怀疑也更深了。她总想把问题问明白,帮他解决,结果换来的是无休止的口水大战。我说这样不行,换一种方式与他沟通,她开始给他写信,但还是无效。最近, Some time ago, a friend complained to me about her husband, saying that her husband is not sitting in front of a computer every day, that is, by the side of the TV and she does not speak and almost forget her existence. She always felt her husband something to hide from her, asked him what happened, he either said nothing, or angry. She was distressed and doubted him even more. She always wanted to understand the problem and help him solve the result in exchange for endless wars. I said no such way, to communicate with him in a different way, she began to write to him, but still invalid. recent,