编辑同志:我外孙女才2岁,一直由奶奶带着。可是过几天就要送到幼儿园去,因为她姑姑也要生孩子了,她奶奶要给女儿带孩子。我今年55岁,身体健康。我想带外孙女,可女儿家都是她婆婆做主,她婆婆说我惯着孩子,说我把女儿已经惯坏了,怕把外孙女也带坏了。说我女儿主意正,不像她儿子,说什么听什么,所以不让我带外孙女,我只能偶尔看到。我该怎么办呢?我就是心疼外孙女啊!我闹心得觉都睡不好,我该怎么办呢?辽宁省沈阳市王女士 Editor’s Comrade: My granddaughter is only 2 years old and has been taken by my grandmother. But in a few days I was sent to kindergarten, because her aunt had children, and her grandmother had to give her daughter a child. I am 55 years old and in good health. I would like to bring a granddaughter, her daughter’s home is her mother-in-law, her mother-in-law that I am used to children, that my daughter has been spoiled, afraid of the granddaughter also brought bad. Say my daughter idea is, unlike her son, what to say, so I will not let my granddaughter, I only see occasionally. What should I do? I am distressed granddaughter ah! I feel awful sleep, what should I do? Ms. Wang, Shenyang City, Liaoning Province