友友:你好! 你相信吗?我和与我同桌过的每一位男生都有过一段故事,而故事都是从喜剧开始而悲剧结束。我是一个热情、活泼、开朗的女孩,因为我的活泼、开朗而让他们动心,但我又是一个保守、胆小的女孩,我从来都不敢接受任何一个男孩,于是我们就陷入尴尬,曾试图改变自己的性格来让自己得到安宁,但我发现很难,我想请你告诉我,我如何来处理此事,既不让他们受到伤害,也不让我们尴尬,更不要改变我自己。 Friends: Hello! Do you believe it? I and every boy at my table have had a story, but the story begins from a comedy and the tragedy ends. I am a warm, lively and cheerful girl, because I lively and cheerful and let them tempted, but I am a conservative, timid girl, I never dared to accept any one boy, so we embarrassed, I tried to change my personality to make myself feel at ease, but I found it very difficult. I want to ask you to tell me how I can handle this matter so that they will not be harmed or embarrassed by us, nor will I change myself .