“谄”,这个词恐怕陌生的人不多。它的词意简单,即巴结、奉承、献媚,说更通俗一点,就是竭尽拍马溜须之能事。因而,大凡稍有骨气的人,对“谄”是避而远之的。《论语·学而》中就曾说过:“贫而无谄,富而无骄”。对谄媚的人,则正如韩愈的一位诗友给他的诗中所言:“史笔应令谄骨羞。”绝对是不大光彩的角色儿。 “谄”, I am afraid this strange few people. Its simple meaning of words, that is, knot, flattery, flattery, that is more popular point, is to do all sorts of things. Therefore, those who have a slight strength can not avoid “谄”. “Analects of Confucius and learning,” once said: “impoverished, rich without arrogance.” The flattering people, just as a poem by Han Yu to his poem said: “The history of the pen should be shameless shame.” Absolutely not a big role in children.