虽说现在社会上对离婚宽容了许多,但离婚仍是个沉重的话题。特别是有孩子的当事人,对所要面对的抉择更加痛苦,他们既怕给孩子留下心理阴影,又为孩子的未来担心,他们甚至不知该如何开口告诉孩子这一现实。有一位女士离婚一年了,还没把她和丈夫离异的事告诉9岁的女儿。其实女儿看到父母分开那么久,多少也知道一些。这位女士说她每次看见女儿充满疑虑的眼神时便欲言又止。 Although there is now a lot of tolerance for divorce in society, divorce is still a heavy topic. Especially those with children, are even more aggravated by the choices they face. They are afraid of leaving a psychological shadow on their children and worrying about the future of their children. They do not even know how to tell their children about this reality. A lady divorced for a year, has not divorced her husband and her husband told her 9-year-old daughter. In fact, my daughter saw the parents separated so long, how many also know some. The lady said she would not say anything when she saw her daughter’s suspicious eyes.