“人生有两大追求目标:首先,得到你想要的;继而,享受你所得到的。只有最明智的人才能达到第二个目标。”——洛根·皮尔索尔·史密斯最近我无意间听到一件令我震惊的事。我听说中了彩票的人只会快活大约三周。是的!仅仅三周,在那之后他们又会回到赢钱之前的状态。这确实令我大吃一惊。我原以为他们为如此神奇的事情而开心的时间会远远超过三周。你知道吗?中彩票的人中百分之九十的人会在一年之内破产,而且大部分人希望他们从未中奖。我认为个中缘由是,无论什么时候我们试图利用某些身外之物来改变自身的感觉,比如中彩票,或得到一辆新车或者一间新房子,统统不管用。由此而产生的愉悦感往往转瞬即逝,难以维持长 “There are two big goals in life: First, get what you want; then, enjoy what you get. Only the most sensible person can achieve the second goal.” "- Logan, Piercell, Smith, I accidentally heard something that shocked me. I have heard that lottery winners will only be happy for about three weeks. Yes, just three weeks, after which they will return to their pre-win status. This really surprised me. I thought they would be happy for such a magical time much longer than three weeks. Did you know that 90% of lottery winners will go bankrupt in a year, and most hope they never win a prize. I think one of the reasons is that whenever we try to use some of the things outside to change our feelings, such as lottery, or get a new car or a new house, do not work. The resulting pleasure often fleeting, difficult to maintain long