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有这样一个故事:洞房花烛夜,当新郎兴奋地揭开新娘盖头,羞答答的新娘正低头看着地上,忽然间掩口而笑,并以手指地:“看,看,看老鼠在吃你家的大米。”第二天早上,新郎还在酣睡,新娘起床看到老鼠在吃大米,一声怒喝:“该死的老鼠!敢偷吃我家大米!”新郎惊醒,不禁莞尔。新娘从“你家”到“我家”的变化,实际上是心态的变化——从“未过门心态”到“过门心态”的变化。
There is such a story: bridal chamber night, when the groom opened the bride excitedly cover, shy bride is looking down on the ground, all of a sudden cover his mouth and smile, and finger to: “Look, look, eat mouse in your Home of rice. ”The next morning, the groom is still asleep, the bride got up and saw the rats eating rice, anger: “ damn mouse! Dare to eat my rice! ”The groom woke up, can not help but smile. The change of the bride from “your house ” to “my home ” is actually the change of mentality - from “not pass the mentality ” to “pass the mentality ” change.