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孩子的成长包括身体上的表征成长和心理上的内在成长两个过程。在心理成长的过程中都会出现第一个反抗期,这个过程一般出现在孩子3～5岁的时候处于第一个反抗期的孩子多表现为不听话,很有“主意”、顶嘴、撒泼、难以管理,在与父母的交谈中经常说反话。出现这些现象,是因为这个年龄的孩子心理发育已经开始出现独立萌芽,自我意识开始发展,好奇心变得更为强烈,而且有了自己的主观愿望,喜欢自己的事情自己做,不希望被别人来干涉自己的行为,一旦遭到父母的反对和制止,就会产生这些问题。这是孩子个性形成的关键期,父母怎样教养孩子和教养的态度正确与否,将直接影响到孩子良好的个性品质的形成。
The child’s growth includes the two processes of physical growth and psychological growth. In the process of psychological growth will appear the first period of resistance, the process generally occurs in the children 3 to 5 years old in the first period of resistance of the children are more disobedient, very “idea”, talkative, Sapo, unmanageable, often talkatively in conversation with her parents. These phenomena occur because the children of this age have undergone an independent development of their mental development, self-awareness has started to develop, the curiosity has become more intense, and has its own subjective desire to like it and do it on its own, without wanting to be others To interfere in their own behavior. Once they have been opposed and stopped by their parents, these problems will arise. This is the key to the formation of children’s personality, parents how to raise children and education correct attitude or not, will have a direct impact on the formation of children’s good personality.