一、话不宜多 有些父母教育孩子费尽心力,但是效果并不理想。他们看似在与孩子交谈,殊不知他们的某些话,恰恰堵住了孩子的嘴巴和耳朵。最常见的弊病是教条似的长篇独自,一开始就是:“当我和你一样年龄的时候……”18岁的珍妮对父母的这种表演评论说:“这是冗长的单边讨论,我根本听不进去。” First, words should not be more parents educate their children to work hard, but the effect is not satisfactory. They seem to be talking to their children, knowing that some of their words, just plug the child’s mouth and ears. The most common ills are dogma-long, self-contained, beginning with “When I was your age ...” The 18-year-old Jenny commented on her parents’ performance: “This is a lengthy one-sided discussion with me Do not listen to it. ”