不夸张地说,不少作家都有这样那样的缺陷。女作家,自我、自恋、自私,有的甚至都到了神经质的地步。可能因此她们大多婚姻不幸,耍单儿的居多。作家本身的学养使她们的情感世界超级丰富、敏感,故而清高、脱俗,眼睛恨不得长到头顶,能入她们法眼的伴侣可想而知。我和身边的女作家有的走得近,有的则保持距离地交往着。远远近近地观望着她们的生活状态,发现不少人极少幸福快乐,毛病一大堆,自怜自艾,有时又 It is no exaggeration to say that many writers have such defects. Female writers, self, narcissism, selfish, and some even went to neuroticism. Probably most of them are unhappy marriages, playing single-child majority. The writer’s own training makes their emotional world super rich, sensitive, so high, refined, the eyes can not wait to grow to the top, can be enchanted by their partners can imagine. Some of the female writers around me and I walked close, while others kept a long way to go. Looking far and near to their state of life and found that very few happy happy, a lot of problems, self-pity, and sometimes