说到家,我们每个人都会想起它对自己的各种各样的影响。那种割舍不断的天伦之缘总会不时地因某一件小事的触动而勾起。记得有一位心理学家说过:“根据人的天性,父亲和女儿、母亲和儿子的关系比父亲和儿子、母亲和女儿更容易融洽些。小的时候,我自己也是有这种感觉的,可是,随着年龄的增加,随着自己在外独立生活、工作经历的增多,我对父与子的关系有了新的认识。我越来越理解了:父亲和母亲是从两个不同的角度来抚育和影响我们的。 When it comes home, each of us recalls its various effects on ourselves. That kind of ceaseless family life will always be triggered by the touching of a small thing. I remember one psychologist who said: ”According to human nature, the relationship between father and daughter, mother and son more easily than the father and son, mother and daughter .In a young age, I also have this feeling However, as I grew older, I became more familiar with the relationship between my father and my son, as I grew myself working independently and experienced more and more. I understood more and more that fathers and mothers differed from two different Angle to nurture and influence us.