最近在日本有种叫作“タメ口”的语言在80后、90后等年轻人群中倍受青睐。虽然这种语言在年轻人中津津乐道、广为流行,但也有很多来自于年长者及教育学家们批评的声音,他们认为这种年轻人之间所谓的“哥们话”不仅违规越礼,而且搅乱了传统意义上的言语规则,应予以正确的引导。笔者认为对于这一新兴的说话方式,一味推崇或一味抨击都不是我们应有的姿态。在这里,笔者将围绕这个富有争议的说话方式发表一下个人的意见及看法。 Recently, a language called “タ メ 口” in Japan has become popular in young people such as 80 and 90. Although the language is widely spoken and relished among young people, there are many voices of criticism from seniors and educators who consider the so-called ’buddies’ between young people not only Violation of the more ceremony, but also disrupt the traditional sense of the rules of speech, should be properly guided. I believe that for this new way of speaking, blindly respected or blindly criticize is not what we should be. Here, I will post some personal opinions and opinions around this controversial way of speaking.