一位法国作家曾说:“人和人之间,最痛心的事奠过于在你认为理应获得善意的地方,却遭受了烦扰和损害”。人活一世,饱经社会与岁月的磨炼,没有亲近之人的关心与支持,难以欢笑着直面磨难。但我们收获了他们的善意,却往往忘记给予他们对等的礼遇。我们在外人面前毕恭毕敬、彬彬有礼,在他们面前却常常口无遮拦、肆 A French writer once said: “The most saddest thing between people is that they have been disturbed and harmed where you think you should have acquired goodwill.” People live one life, social and years of trials and hardships, there is no close person’s concern and support, it is difficult to laugh straight face suffering. However, we have reaped their goodwill, but we often forget to give them reciprocal courtesy. We are respectful and respectful in the presence of foreigners, often without a word before them