如果孩子犯了错误,你会怎么对待?你是不是觉得这是一个最好的教育机会,是不是觉得该让他吃点苦头,让他感觉不好,下次才能长记性,才能表现得更好?麻烦您回忆一下,当您还是孩子的时候,犯了错误,经过老师或父母对您的批评、惩罚之后,您是否认为“啊,老师和父母对我太好了,下次我一定要好好表现”?当你成年以后,如果你犯了一个错误,你的伴侣或领导只会不停地批评你、指责你犯的错误的时候,你会有什么感觉?你会 If your child made a mistake, what would you do? Do you think this is the best educational opportunity? Do you think it should make him feel bitter, not feel good until next time, and you can behave more Good? Trouble you remember, when you are a child, made a mistake, after teachers or parents of your criticism and punishment, do you think "ah, the teacher and parents are too good for me, next time I must When you are young, what do you feel when you make a mistake, your partner or leader will only keep criticizing you and accusing you of making mistakes? You will