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我记得一个故事,说是一个父亲给孩子一只牛崽让他喂养料理,并且每天举过头顶一次。在孩子长大时,牛也长大了,他每天都在举起不同的重量。到15岁时,年轻人能举起一只骠悍成熟的公牛。在我的生活中也有个类似的故事——是我孩子为我所做的事,也许你的孩子对你也会这样做,无论你是否知道。一天,我在西雅图与10岁的儿子伊凡打网球。从5岁起伊凡就是我唯一的网球伙伴。在隔壁球场是当地网球队的一帮小家伙,在我去拣界外球时,球队教练靠近我说:“你儿子打得真好。” 我知道他不仅是夸奖伊凡,而且想要他。为让这
I remember a story that a father gave his child a cow cub to feed him and raised his head once a day. As the child grows up, the bull has grown and he lifts a different weight every day. By the age of 15, young people can lift a fierce and mature bull. There is a similar story in my life - what my child does for me, and maybe your child will do it for you, whether you know it or not. One day I played tennis with Ivan, 10, in Seattle. From 5 years old Ivan is my only tennis partner. The next-door course was a bunch of little guys at the local tennis team, and as I went to pick the extra-ball, the team coach approached me saying: “Your son played really well.” I know he’s not just a compliment to Ivan, but also Want him. To make this