有人告诉我,人与人之间的相互夸奖,几乎都潜藏着利益往来与索取。当语言变得充满了功利性,成了糖衣炮弹,便是一件很可怕的事情。那啥时候赞美的语言是没有功利性的?比如我们赞美风景,赞美阳光花草,那是期待大自然给我们回报吗?人与人之间,一般不要期望水乳交融的关系,不要期望鱼与水、人与空气那么融洽,大多数时候,只是妥协下去,人与人只是孤岛与孤岛 Someone told me that mutual praise among people almost lurks interests and exchanges. When the language becomes full of utilitarian, sugar-coated shells, it is a terrible thing. For example, we praise the scenery, praise the sun and the grass, it is looking forward to nature to return us? Between people, generally do not expect the perfect mix of water, do not expect fish and water, People and the air is so harmonious, most of the time, just compromise, people and only islands and islands