坚持“爱教结合”提倡爱而不溺。爱护和教育之间的矛盾是今日家庭教育面临的难题之一。当代家庭教育的主要问题是对子女溺爱太多、保护过度、包办太多,这是爱的误区。教育是理性行为,而家长的爱往往出于本能,缺乏理智,对孩子一味的溺爱与放纵,只会害了孩子。为了孩子健康的的发展,我们要做到“爱教结合”。首先,家长必须爱孩子。对孩子的爱,应该是理性的,有节制的。反对溺爱。不过度保护,不包办代替,充分尊重 Adhere to “love and education combined with” to promote love without drowning. The contradiction between love and education is one of the problems facing family education today. The main problem of contemporary family education is to spoil too many children, over-protect and over-arrange them. This is a misunderstanding of love. Education is a rational behavior, and parents love is often out of instinct, lack of reason, blindly spoiled and indulgent children will only harm children. In order to the healthy development of children, we have to do “love to teach combination ”. First, parents must love their children. Love for children should be rational and temperate. Oppose doting. Not excessive protection, not arranged instead, full respect