在某种意义上看,人就是生活在对与错、善与恶、完美与缺陷的现实中。我们既然能从自己非常优秀与完美的特点中受益,为什么就不能从自己的缺陷中受益呢?首先,确立有缺陷并不是一件坏摹的观念。那些自认为自身条件已经足售好以致于无可挑剔、不必改变现状的人, In a sense, people are living in the right and wrong, good and evil, perfect and flawed reality. Since we can benefit from our very outstanding and perfect characteristics, why can we not benefit from our own defects? First, establishing flaws is not a bad idea. Those who think that their own conditions are already sold well enough to be impeccable and do not have to change the status quo.