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父母的言行举止都对孩子成长起到潜移默化的作用。因此,家长在孩子面前的一言一语都要注意。一忌孩子有错误时,如:学习上不专心、贪玩等,家长在孩子面前有意无意地说:“反正他还小。”“他还是介孩子嘛。”这等于告知孩子:不专心、贪玩也行。二忌在孩子失败时,气愤地说:“我怎么生了你这么个笨孩子。”“一辈子都没有出息。”这等于判了孩子死刑,至少也给孩子泼了一盆冷水,极大地伤害了孩子的自尊心和自信心。
Parents’ demeanor behaves subtly to the child’s growth. Therefore, the parents in front of children should pay attention to what they say. A bogey children mistakes, such as: learning is not focused, playful, etc., parents in front of children intentionally or unintentionally said: “Anyway, he was still young.” “He is the introduction of children Well.” This is tantamount to inform the children: do not concentrate, Fun also. Two bogey in the child’s failure, angrily said: “how I gave birth to you so stupid child.” “There is no life out of breath.” This is equal to sentenced the child to death, at least to the child poured a cold water, greatly hurt Children’s self-esteem and self-confidence.