教子有五，废一不可［宋代］家颐 人生至乐，无如读书；至要，无如教子。 父子之间，不可溺于小慈，自小律之以威，绳之 以礼，则长无不肖之悔。 教子有五：导其性，广其志，养其才，鼓其气，攻 其病。废一不可。 养子弟如养芝兰，既积学以培植之，又积善以 滋润之。 人家子弟 There are five sons, waste one can not [Song] home to life, no such as reading; Between father and son, can not indulge in Komukai, since the law of the small to Granville, rope ceremony, you grow all shades of regret. There are five sons: guide its nature, wide Chi, raise its ability, drumming, attack its disease. Waste a must. Young adoptive brother, such as raising Zhi Lan, both plot to cultivate, but also plot to nourish the good. People’s children