总觉得盛怒的样子会很难看,是神经质和无能的表现。女儿犯错误的时候,我会制止或警告,但不会以一种极端的方式与她对抗,或当众惩罚她。我会在事后找个时机,和她自然地谈这个问题,谈通谈透。这些年来,孩子的整体面貌越来越令人满意,且从来没有出现过“妈妈你又来了”之类的反感倾向。因为她认为我理解她,尊重她。事实上,谁都希望做一个被人认可的人。 Always feel angry look will be very ugly, is the performance of nervous and incompetent. When a girl makes a mistake, I will stop or warn, but I will not confront her in an extreme way or punish her in public. I will find a chance after the event, and she naturally talk about this issue, to talk about. Over the years, the child’s overall appearance has become more and more satisfactory, and there has never been any dislike tendency such as “you’re here again”. Because she thinks I understand her, respect her. In fact, anyone wants to be a recognized person.