“不要锋芒太露” ,是日常生活工作中一些“好心人”、“过来人”对他人的劝告 ,也是不少人奉行的处世信条。听惯了 ,不觉得有什么不妥 ,但仔细琢磨 ,便觉得有些问题。明代有个官员叫张干 ,四朝元老 ,人称“不倒翁”。有人向他请教 :怎样平息诽谤？答曰 :无辩。又问 :怎样制止? “Do not be too exposed,” is a daily life work of some “good people”, “over the people” advice to others, but also many people follow the doctrine of life. Used to listening, do not think there is anything wrong, but carefully pondering, they feel some problems. There is an official in the Ming Dynasty called Zhang Gan, the four seniors, known as “tumbler.” Someone to ask him: how to quell defamation? Answer: No debate. Ask: how to stop?