“记得很多年前,一个师姐曾经告诫过我,‘一段关系中,把握稳定的姿态最重要,如果你一开始就先让步,之后你就会一直让步,这段关系里,你就永远是让步者的角色。’这段严重的话,记忆深刻,之后虽然未能坚持只进不退的姿态,却也深深明白师姐‘过来人’这番言语的意义。一段婚姻或是一段关系,也如同战场,会攻会守才是王道。” “I remember many years ago, a Sister once warned me, ’a relationship, to grasp the most stable attitude, if you give up the first concession, and then you will always give in, this relationship, you will always be Concessioner’s role. ’This serious, memorable, although after failing to adhere to the attitude of indecisiveness, but also deeply understand the meaning of Sister’ 来人 ’words. A marriage or a relationship, as the same Battlefield, will attack the guard is king. ”