高中语文新教材三、四册选文的重点是文学作品 ,所选作品爱情题材占了相当大的比重。对此 ,见仁见智 ,各有其说。笔者以为 ,现今中学生谈恋爱的现象已绝非个别 ,且已出现普遍化、低龄化、公开化的苗头。严厉禁止显然不会有效果 ,而采取默许甚至纵容的态度更是家长的糊涂、社会 The focus of the third and fourth volumes of high school language textbooks is literary works. The love theme of the selected works accounts for a considerable proportion. In this regard, there are different opinions. The author believes that the phenomenon of falling in love among middle school students is no longer individual, and the signs of universalization, young age, and openness have emerged. Strict prohibition clearly has no effect, and adopting an attitude of acquiescence or even indulging is more of a parent’s confusion and society.