家有一双儿女,虽说一奶同胞,性格却迥然不同。10岁的女儿迪迪个性倔强、脾气急躁,两岁的儿子毛毛性格平和、乖巧懂事。姐弟俩一动一静、一急一缓。之所以如此不同,除了先天禀赋差别之外,我认为还有以下几个方面的原因。缺乏经验我二十几岁生下女儿,在照顾孩子方面全无经验,育儿过程中稍遇状况就方寸大乱,紧张无措。对孩子的养育更多的是凭借书本知识,死板教条;更多的是把孩子当成温室里的花儿来养护。这样培 Family has a pair of children, although a milk fellow, the character is very different. 10-year-old daughter Didi personality stubborn, irritable temper, two-year-old son of plush character calm, well-behaved sensible. Sister and brother a move, a sudden slow. The reason is so different, in addition to the inherent endowment differences, I think there are several reasons. Lack of experience In my twenties, I gave birth to a daughter. I had no experience in taking care of children. I was in a state of turmoil when I was in a situation of childcare. Foster children more by virtue of book knowledge, rigid dogma; more of the children as flowers in the greenhouse to conservation. This training