电影里常有女的跑男的追的镜头,这几乎成了表现恋爱的公式。诚然,爱情是一个追求的过程,但人们对这个追求过程往往有不少错误的看法。 最普遍的陷价是错把起点当终点。许多人对爱人的追求止于结婚,一结婚就认为追到手了。不错,结婚是一个胜利——那么多人中只选中了你。但这只是参赛资格的认可,远非最后的胜利。本来通过预选进入正式比赛应该更投入,表现更精彩,可有些人却把起跑线当成了终点线,象考进大学一样以为有了铁饭碗,稀松懒散,毫无爱绩,对爱人还不如佣人,使爱人频生后悔之心。这不但谈不上爱情的胜利,如果爱人引进了竞争机制,自己还有被炒鱿鱼的危险。 上海有位市民写信向编辑求救:他结了 The film often run the shot of a female runner, which has almost become the expression of love formula. It is true that love is a pursuit process, but people often have many wrong views on this pursuit process. The most common price trap is the wrong starting point. Many people love the pursuit of the end of marriage, a marriage that catch up with the hand. Yes, marriage is a triumph - so many of you have just selected you. But this is only recognition of eligibility, far from the final victory. Originally entered through the preselection should be more formal input into the game, the performance is more exciting, but some people started the line as a finish line, as admitted to the university that have the iron rice bowl, lazy, no love, not as good as love maid , So that love people frequently regret the heart. This not only fails to mention the victory of love, if the lover introduced a competitive mechanism, he still has the risk of being fired. A citizen in Shanghai wrote to the editor for help: he ended up