高尔基曾说过这样一句话:“爱孩子,那是连母鸡都会做的事。如何教育孩子,则是一件大事。”可见,我们光有爱孩子的心是远远不够的。关键是要懂得怎样去爱,尤其是要讲究爱的方法。中国的父母舍得在孩子身上大把大把地花钱。今天,我们的孩子吃穿不愁,上着各种兴趣班,似乎是最幸福的一代。可为什么还接二连三地出现少年自杀或弑父伤母的惨剧?这说明我们的家庭教育出现了问 Gorky once said something like this: “Love children, that is what hens will do, and how to educate their children is a big deal.” "We can see that it is far from enough that we have a love for our children. The key is to know how to love, especially to pay attention to the method of love. Chinese parents are willing to spend a lot of money on children. Today, our children have to worry about food and clothing, and they have various interest classes, which seem to be the happiest generation. Why can one after another appear juvenile suicide or patriarchal tragedy? This shows that our family education appeared