我们常把快乐与金钱、权力、名誉联系在一起,认为幸福就是种种的拥有或是享受,常拼命地去为之追求钻营,反而更觉得生活的苦涩和艰辛,离幻想中的幸福越来越远。社会心理学家研究发现,构成幸福的几个因素,不是成功、年轻、富有、或别的什么招人妒羡的资本,而是人际关系的温馨和美满的婚姻等。而人际关系的温馨,婚姻的美满,则偏重于心灵的感受与体验。正如快乐,是人心灵感受的反应一样,它不是简单物质堆砌的结果。一个热情的人,往往最易感受到幸福。一个懂生活、会生活的人,应善于享受已拥有的一切。少年享受无忧的心情和大人的关爱;成年人享受成熟的自在与自己的劳动成果;老年人则在幸福中品尝晚年生活的温馨。如果你渴望多些快乐,就不要寄希望于你有多少金钱有什么名位,而是从现在就减轻你人 We often associate happiness with money, power and reputation. We think that happiness is the possession or enjoyment of all kinds. We often strive to pursue the pursuit of it. Instead, we feel the bitterness and hardship of life and the fantasy of happiness more and more far. Social psychologists have found that the factors that make up happiness are not the successful, young, wealthy, or envious capital, but the warm and happy marriage of relationships. The warmth of interpersonal relationships, happy marriage, the emphasis on the feelings and experiences of the soul. Just as happiness is the reaction of the mind, it is not the result of a simple matter. An enthusiastic person, often the most susceptible to happiness. A person who knows life and lives will be good at enjoying what it has. Adolescents enjoy a carefree mood and adult care; adults enjoy mature freedom and their own labor; the elderly enjoy the warmth of later life in happiness. If you are longing for more happiness, do not pin your hopes on how much money you have and how to reduce you from now on