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一是两代人统一“思想认识”。由于出生与成长的环境和时代有着显著的差异,祖辈和父辈在教育孩子的问题上自然也会存在相当大的差距。比如,父辈们可能更注重孩子智力培养、个性发展,他们往往会更多地向孩子传递知识,给他更多自由,让他自由探索;而祖辈们则更看重道德教育,可能会给孩子更多的约束。在教育孩子的问题上,两代人要尽量平心静气,多一些沟通,只有统一认识,才能避免在孩子面前暴露分歧,防止这种分歧引发更多的问题。父母们最好尽量多向祖辈请教,多一
First, two generations of unity “ideological understanding ”. Due to the significant difference between the environment and the times of birth and growth, there will naturally be quite a big gap between the grandparents and their fathers in educating their children. For example, fathers may pay more attention to children’s intellectual development, personality development, they tend to be more knowledge transfer to children, give him more freedom to let him explore freely; and ancestors are more emphasis on moral education may give children more More constraints. On the issue of educating children, the two generations should try their best to be calm and have more communication. Only by unifying their understanding can we avoid exposing differences to children and preventing such disagreements from causing more problems. Parents are best advised as much as possible to the ancestors, one more