公平是相对而言的,要求达到绝对的公平是相当艰难的。做人总要有吃亏精神。多干点工作,就要讨价还价,索取过分的报酬;待遇稍微不如别人一点,马上勃然变脸,到处吵吵闹闹;职位要求一旦达不到,心理就失去平衡,或者采取某种过激的行动,或者出言不逊。这种蠢行不仅使自己前功尽弃,而且得不到别人的同情,因为社会对这样斤斤计较的人最为不 Fairness is relative, and achieving absolute fairness is quite difficult. Always have to lose someone’s spirit. If you have to do more work, you will have to bargain and ask for too much remuneration. If your treatment is slightly worse than others, you may face a sudden change of face and you may feel noisy everywhere. Once your job requirements are not met, your psychology will be out of balance or you may take some kind of overreaction. Excuse me. This stupid behavior not only make one’s own efforts, but also not get the sympathy of others, because the social careless about such people most not