我有个同事,他的孩子在幼儿园里连一首完整的歌也学不会。每当他看到别的孩子从幼儿园回来唱唱跳跳,自己的孩子象个哑巴,他心里就不愉快,于是经常训斥孩子,骂他是“黄鱼脑袋”,越骂孩子越自卑,甚至连最简单的儿歌也忘得一干二净。我还听到过这样一件事:一个孩子在幼儿园里私拿了一只苹果,邻居的孩子告诉了他的爸爸,做爸爸的不进行正面教育,把孩子劈劈拍拍地打了一顿。第二天,这个孩子到幼儿园,把邻居的孩子也打了一顿。这事让他爸爸知道了,自然免不了又是一顿打。 I have a colleague who can not even make a complete song in kindergarten. Whenever he saw other children come back to sing and dance from kindergarten, his children like a dumb, his heart is not happy, so often reprimanded children, called him a “yellow croaker head,” the more abusive the child the more self-abased, and even the most Simple children’s songs also forgotten. I have also heard such a thing: a child in the kindergarten privately took an apple, neighbors’ children told his father, father do not carry out positive education, the child hitting and patted a meal . The next day, the child went to kindergarten and took a neighbor’s children. This thing let his father know, naturally inevitably another meal.