有父母担心给孩子立规矩会不会限制孩子的自主性?怎样立规矩才更有效?简·纳尔逊是国际知名的家教专家,在《养育孩子锦囊妙解》一书中对规矩的比喻我很喜欢。她把规矩形象地比喻成“悬崖峭壁旁的栏杆”。有了护栏我们的车能更加安全地行驶,我们也能更好地领略人 Have parents worried about the rules of the child will not limit the autonomy of children? How to establish rules only more effective? Jane Nelson is an internationally renowned tutor, in the “Parenting Wonderful solution” a book metaphor I like very much. She vividly compared the rules to “the railings beside the cliffs.” With the fence our car can safer, we can better understand people