在我成长的过程中,我一直羞于让别人看见和父亲在一起。我的父亲身材矮小,腿上有严重的残疾。当我们一起走路时,他总是挽着我的胳膊以保持身体平衡,这时总招来一些异样的目光,令我内心局促不安。可是如果他注意到了这些,不管他内心多么痛苦,也从不表现出来。走路时,我们很难相互协调起来——他的步子慢慢腾腾,我的步子焦燥不安。所以一路上我们交谈得很少。但是每次出行前,他总是说,“你走你的,我想法儿跟上你”。我 As I grew up, I was ashamed to let others see my father. My father was short and had severe disabilities in his legs. When we walked together, he always took my arm to keep the body in balance. At that time, he always attracted some strange eyes and it made me feel uneasy. But if he notices this, no matter how painful his heart is, he never shows it. When we walk, it is difficult for us to coordinate with each other - his steps slowly and my steps are uneasy. So we talked very little along the way. But before each trip, he always said, “You go with you, I want to follow you.” I