孩子从家庭进入幼儿园。这就意味着开始独立地进入社会群体。在这个群体中,孩子怎样处理自己与他人的关系,尤其是孩子在受了欺负、受了委屈以后。家长和老师应该怎么做,这是我们经常遇到而又必须及时处理好的一个现实问题。有位家长谈到这个问题时很忧虑。她有个女儿,从小活泼开朗。心地善良。父母平时经常对孩子说:与人相处要文明礼貌,诚实友好。可是进幼儿园以后,女儿老是受别人欺负。让她去告诉老师,她说:“老师说过,这类事你们自己处理。”几年下 Children enter kindergarten from home. This means starting to enter social groups independently. In this group, how children handle their relationship with others, especially after their children have been bullied and subjected to grievances. What parents and teachers should do is a realistic problem that we often encounter and must be dealt with promptly. A parent worries about this issue. She has a daughter, lively and cheerful. Kind-hearted Usually parents often say to their children: get along with others to be polite, honest and friendly. However, after entering kindergarten, her daughter is always bullied by others. Let her go to tell the teacher, she said: “The teacher said, this kind of thing you deal with. ” A few years