最近,南京的一位心理学家在调查中发现,孩子最害怕听到的,是家长这样的话: 1.“傻瓜,无用的东西!” 2.“你简直是个废物。” 3.“你又做了错事,简直坏透了。” 4.“住嘴!你怎么就是不听话呢?” 5.“我说不行就不行!” 6.“我再也不管你了,随你的便好了。” 7.“求求你,别再这样做好吗?” 8.“你做这种事,真让我伤透心了。” 9.“你若考一百分,我就给你买脚踏车。” Recently, a psychologist in Nanjing found during his investigation that what the child most feared hearing was that of his parents: 1. “Fool, useless stuff!” 2. “You’re a waste.” 3. “You The wrong thing, simply perverted. ”4.“ Shut up! How do you disobedient? ”5.“ I can not do not! ”“ I no longer care about you, as you are good ”7.“ Please, do not do that anymore. ”8.“ You did such a thing that I was really hurt. ”9.“ If you test a hundred percent, I will give it to you Buy a bike. ”