很多时候,家长们都以为自己对孩子是全心付出的,也希望孩子的收获都符合自己的期待。但是,家长们在望子成龙、望女成凤的时候,是否发现孩子滋生的愁容?卫兵(化名)是笔者在某小学实习的时候遇到的一个孩子。刚开始的时候,我并没有特别地注意到他,因为他的表现看起来就像一般内向的孩子一样——不爱搭理人,总是一个人安静地 In many cases, parents think they are devoted to their children, and hope that their children’s rewards meet their expectations. However, when parents look forward to success and find their own way into the world, do they find their child’s sadness? Guard (a pseudonym) is a child I met during the internship with a primary school. At the beginning, I did not notice him particularly, because his performance looked like a normal introverted child - he did not love him, always quietly