教育孩子,有很多“想当然”的做法事实上是错误的。1、认为孩子理所当然地应该听家长的话“孩子不听我的!”这是许多家长常说的一句话,你的孩子听你话只有两个原因:一是你说的话是对的并且对他有好处;二是你们相互约定好必须按规则做。如果想让孩子听你的话,你就要先培养孩子的平等观念和独立人格。与孩子平等相处,引导孩子正确思考,让孩子独立做出选择,千万不要强迫孩子听我们的话。因为你无法证明你说的话一定是对的,就象孩子想吃香蕉而你 To educate children, there are many “taken for granted” practices that are in fact wrong. 1, that children should naturally listen to the words of parents “” children do not listen to me! "This is what many parents often say, your child to listen to you only two reasons: First, what you are saying is right Good for him; the second is that you must make good agreement with each other. If you want children to listen to you, you should first develop their children’s concept of equality and independent personality. Get along with your children on an equal footing, guide your children to think properly and let their children make choices independently. Do not force children to listen to us. Because you can not prove that what you say must be right, just like children want to eat bananas and you