如果人生就是有一份稳定的工作,结婚生子与生老病死。那么到底活着有什么意义?毕业之后,我也开始思考这个问题。虽然意义本身并不存在,人们创造它,更多是为了安慰自己所做的一切,并企图宽慰自己的人生。我时常与母亲座谈,她试图逼迫我去做她托亲戚朋友帮忙找的工作,我不肯,说:“人活着,不就是为了快乐地到死吗?”她无言以对,尴尬地笑,最后结束谈话时还是得嘟囔几句“我还是觉得你就应该去工作”之类。每当这时,我都会耍性子半开玩笑地说:“就让我出去闯荡几年吧,等我走投无路的时候再来投奔你们。”二十几年来,我都被他们好好地呵护,我也自然而然把他们当成了避风港。但是,当有了判断是非和掌控自己生活的能 If life is to have a stable job, marriage and children are born and died. So what’s the point of living? After graduation, I started to think about it. Although meaning itself does not exist, people create it more to comfort what they are doing and to try to comfort themselves. I often talk to my mother, she tried to persecute me to do the work she asked my relatives and friends to help find. I refused to say: “She is alive, is not it to be happy to die?” She was speechless, embarrassed To laugh, the last to end the conversation still have to mutter a few “I still think you should go to work” and the like. Whenever this time, I will say half jokingly: “Let me go out and battles a few years, when I desperately come to you.” "For twenty years, I have been well care for them, I Naturally they also regarded them as safe haven. However, when there is a possibility of judging right and wrong and controlling your own life