在家庭教育的咨询中,许多家长提出的最大的疑问就是,为什么对自己孩子“合理的”高要求总是得不到响应,甚至是完全相反的回报。其实道理很简单,就是家长用“一厢情愿”替代了“顺应自然”的法则。古训中有“顺理而举易为力,背时而动难为功”的原理,很值得为人父母者的思考。单向的“高调教子”, In the home education counseling, many parents raised the biggest question is why the “reasonable” high demand for their children are always unresponsive, or even the opposite of the return. In fact, the reason is very simple, that is, parents use “wishful thinking” to replace the “natural” rule. In the old teaching, there is a principle of “being reasonable while using force as force, and moving back from time to time as hard as possible,” so it is worth considering by parents. One-way “high profile teach children”