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人们都说父母之爱是伟大的、神圣的,我想这是千真万确的;但这种爱同时也带着盲目,因为它是发自人的本能。这样说来似乎太抽象了,我也是母亲,有个十几岁的儿子,还是从我的切身体会来谈谈吧。 1974年我调到幼儿园工作,那时的我还极不安心于这个工作,总想高开幼儿园,后来结了婚有了儿子,从有了孩子那一刻开始,我的意识和情感发生了变化。我不再想离开幼儿园了,静静地等候我的儿子,待他长到两岁时使进入了我的幼儿园,而且一开始还是我自己带的班。为了他我放弃了上大学的机会,自认为他生活在我的翅膀之下是最安全,也是我最放心的。但事与愿违,他变得自负,比其他的孩子更具依赖性,而且他板强的自我中心直接影响到了身体健康,他开始消瘦。我明显地感到他的扭曲,问题终于在一次舞蹈排练中爆发了。我编了一个舞蹈《亚克西》,六个新疆小老头,六个孩子排
People say that the love of their parents is great and sacred. I think this is true. But this love is blind at the same time because it is a human instinct. It seems absurd to say so, I am also a mother, a teenage son, or from my personal experience to talk about it. I transferred to kindergarten in 1974, when I was still very unhappy with this work, always want to leave kindergarten, and later got married and have a son, from the moment of having children, my consciousness and feelings have changed . I no longer want to leave kindergarten, quietly waiting for my son, until his two-year-old entered my kindergarten, and from the beginning is my own class. For him I gave up the chance to go to college, since he thinks that he lives under my wing is the safest, and I am most assured. However, contrary to expectations, he became conceited and more dependent than other children, and his strong self-centered direct impact on physical health, he began to lose weight. I clearly felt his distortion, the problem finally broke out in a dance rehearsal. I made up a dance “Yakeshi”, six Xinjiang old man, six children row