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怎样培养孩子的耐挫能力?首先,要培养孩子的自尊心。自尊是对自己身体、能力、表现等感到满意的一种心态。孩子在完成某件事的过程中难免会出差错,父母不应当用成人的眼光来审视,粗暴地指责:“这样简单的问题也做不好,太笨了！”更不应该在他人面前倾诉孩子的缺陷、错误,或在孩子之间进行攀比。父母应该重视与孩子相处的礼貌,注意孩子过去和现在的行为变化,多提孩子的优点和成绩,增加孩子生活做事的信心。
How to cultivate children’s frustration? First of all, to develop their children’s self-esteem. Self-esteem is a state of mind that is satisfied with one’s own body, ability, performance, etc. Children will inevitably go wrong in the process of accomplishing something. Parents should not look at them with an adult’s eyes and rudely accuse: “Such a simple question is not well done or too stupid!” Moreover, we should not talk in front of others Child’s defects, mistakes, or comparisons between children. Parents should pay attention to courtesy with children, pay attention to changes in children’s past and present behavior, raise the child’s merits and achievements, and increase children’s confidence in life and work.