我有两个孙女后,心想要在孙女身上好好献一份爱心,以弥补自己对两个儿子小时候关心的不够。于是,孙女哭了我就去抱;孙女睡着时也要去亲亲。当她们第一次会喊“爷爷”时,我更是由衷地高兴。她俩要玩,我就带她们出去玩;要吃,我就依从她们去买,对她们是百依百顺,唯恐亏了她们。久而久之,她俩把我看作“保护伞”,越来越顽皮。吃饭要随她们高兴,穿衣要由她们自己选,如不合意就不吃、不穿。她们要买啥就得买啥,不买就不走,甚至动手打长辈,哭闹不休。这种情况使我不得不想:长此下去,这样的孩子将来怎么与人和睦相处?怎么顺利地生活和工作?我反省自己,认识到必须改变娇宠孩子的做法,决 After I had two granddaughters, I wanted to give my granddaughter a good love to make up for my lack of concern for my two sons. So, my granddaughter cried I went to hug; granddaughter also went to kiss asleep. When they first called Grandpa, I was even more delighted. She wants to play, I will take them out to play; to eat, I will obey them to buy, to them is obedience, fear of losing them. As time passes, both of them think of me as an “umbrella,” more and more naughty. Eat with them happy, dress should be chosen by their own, if not desirable, do not eat, do not wear. They have to buy what you have to buy what, do not buy do not go, or even play elders, cry endless. This situation makes me have to think: In the long run, how can such children live in harmony with others in the future? How can they live and work smoothly? I reflect on myself and realize that we must change the practice of petting children.