“人不可貌相,海水不可斗量”是中国人挂在嘴边的一句古语,那么,这句话里那个“不可貌相”的人是谁呢?这个人复姓澹台,名灭明,字子羽。澹台灭明是春秋末期的鲁国武城人,比孔子晚生三十九年。他天生异相,面貌丑陋,所以,当他去拜孔子为师时,孔子虽然没有拒绝他,却总对他爱搭不理,让人家坐冷板凳。澹台灭明对孔夫子以貌取人的态度颇为失望,毅然决然离开孔子,开始了漫长刻苦的自学历程。 “People can not be out of shape, the sea can not be struggling,” is an old Chinese hanging in the mouth of an old saying, then this sentence that “appearance ” who is it? Ming, the word child feather. Tantai Ming is the end of spring and autumn Lugu Wusi people, born thirty-nine years later than Confucius. He was born out of phase, his face ugly, so when he went to worship Confucius as a teacher, Confucius, though he did not refuse him, but always love him ignore, let people sit cold bench. Tantai Ming-ming was quite disappointed with Confucius’s attitude of taking appearances by appearances, resolutely leaving Confucius and beginning a long, painstaking self-study process.