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很多家长都觉得孩子永远是孩子。所以对孩子总是很包容,就是做错了,也认为他还是个孩子。其实,这个观念很不利于孩子的成长。孩子一天天在长大,他的思维思想也会产生很大的变化。如果你总是以“他还是个孩子”的眼光来看待,孩子会觉得你根本不理解他,进而会觉得你瞧不起他,矛盾容易出现,沟通会越来越艰难。而如果你积极地选择与孩子同步成长,那么你对问题的处理方式随着孩子的成长,不断地修正,与孩子的沟通就会顺畅很多。
Many parents think children will always be children. Therefore, the child is always very tolerant, is doing wrong, but also that he is still a child. In fact, this concept is not conducive to the growth of children. Children grow up day by day, his thinking will also have a great change. If you always look at “he is still a child”, the child will feel that you do not understand him, and you may think that you look down upon him. Contradictions will easily appear and communication will become more and more difficult. And if you actively choose to grow in sync with your child, then the way you deal with the problem as the child grows, constantly revised, and the child’s communication will be much smoother.