我们的伦理教科书告诉我们的是摒弃自爱自利念头,完全彻底为公为人,不知己,不利己,不为己,一心利民,一心利公,一心利他,视“利己”为邪祟。中国的家族伦理与西方的个人伦理截然对立。个人伦理强调道德的自主论,家族伦理偏重道德义务论。有些人把“克己复礼”、“忘我”、“舍己”、“完全无私”、“彻底 Our ethical textbooks tell us that we are abandoning the idea of ​​self-interest and self-interest, completely and completely acting as people, not knowing ourselves, not favoring oneself, not being self-centered, single-minded, profit-loving, single-minded, altruistic, and self-interested. China’s family ethics are in stark contrast to Western individual ethics. Individual ethics emphasizes moral autonomy, and family ethics emphasizes moral obligation. Some people use ”self-restitution,“ ”forget it,“ ”sacrifice,“ ”completely selfless,“ ”completely."